Editorial Standards
Last updated: April 2026
The Clear Mom exists because I couldn't find honest, rigorously-sourced writing about mothers and alcohol that didn't read like a marketing funnel or a clinical textbook. This page documents the standards I hold myself to so you can decide how much weight to give what you read here.
Who I am
I'm Amy. I'm not a doctor, a therapist, a researcher, or a clinician. I'm a mom of three in Colorado who got curious about what would happen if I stopped pouring that nightly glass of wine, fell down a long research rabbit hole, and started writing about what I learned. Everything on this site comes from me, reading studies, paying attention, and trying things.
That means two things. First, my lived experience is a real signal, and Google's "Experience" pillar of E-E-A-T was added specifically to legitimize first-person voices on topics like this one. Second, my opinions are mine, not a clinician's — and you should treat them accordingly.
Sourcing rules
Every factual claim on this site traces to a real primary source. The source priority order I follow:
- Peer-reviewed meta-analyses (Cochrane Database of Systematic Reviews, The Lancet, JAMA, Journal of Medical Internet Research)
- Peer-reviewed primary research (PubMed-indexed studies)
- Major health authorities (World Health Organization, CDC, NIH, NIAAA, FDA)
- Books by credentialed authors (e.g., Judith Grisel's Never Enough, Annie Grace's This Naked Mind, Holly Whitaker's Quit Like a Woman)
- High-quality journalism — only for cultural or historical claims, never for scientific or clinical claims
What I never cite: random blogs, Medium posts, content marketing pieces, press releases, unverified Substacks, Wikipedia as a primary source, or "studies show" claims without naming the study. If I can't source a claim, I cut it or soften it.
How I distinguish science from experience
You'll see two distinct voices on this site. When I say "the research shows" or "studies find," I'm reporting on peer-reviewed research and I link to the source. When I say "what I noticed" or "for me, this helped," I'm telling you about my own experience — one data point, not a clinical finding. I try to be explicit about which mode I'm in so you can weigh them differently.
Fact-checking process
Before a post is published:
- Every claim is matched against a primary source from our citation library
- Every DOI and URL is verified to resolve
- Every statistic is traced back to its original study, not a secondary aggregator
- Every quote is checked against its original source
- Self-reported company statistics (e.g., an app's "91% of users" figure) are attributed explicitly as company-reported, never stated as independent fact
Updates and corrections
Every post shows a "last updated" date. When new research changes what I wrote, I update the post and bump the date. When I discover an error, I correct it in place and add a note to the bottom of the post describing what was wrong and when it was fixed.
If you find an error in anything I've written, please tell me. I will fix it, and I will acknowledge it.
Conflicts of interest
The Clear Mom does not take money from alcohol brands, alcohol-industry associations, or alcohol-reduction app companies. No sponsored posts. No affiliate commissions dressed up as editorial reviews. When I recommend a product, it's because I have personally used it and found it valuable, or because the evidence base for it is strong.
Where I have opinions about specific tools — like my preference for app-based neuroscience programs over 12-step frameworks for most of my readers — those opinions come from using the tools and reading the research, not from any commercial relationship. You are always free to disagree.
What this site is not
- It is not medical advice. Nothing here substitutes for a conversation with a qualified clinician. If you're worried about your drinking or your health, please talk to your doctor.
- It is not a diagnosis tool. I won't tell you whether you have a "problem." I'll tell you what the research says about alcohol and sleep, alcohol and perimenopause, alcohol and anxiety. You decide what to do with that information.
- It is not a program. There's no 30-day challenge to sign up for, no coaching to book, no course to buy. This is a blog with articles, and that's it.
- It is not a recovery community. If you need support, peer communities like SMART Recovery or r/stopdrinking exist for that. I am not in a position to provide one-on-one support and will always redirect you to resources that are.
Contact
If you'd like to flag an error, ask a question, or send feedback, reach out through the link on the about page. I read everything. I won't always be able to respond personally, but corrections always get made.
— Amy